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Valentine's Day: What's love really got to do with it?
(CRI)
Updated: 2006-02-10 14:12 Valentines Day is a great opportunity for us to
broaden our understanding of love and its power. We have missed the deeper
meaning of Valentines Day by singling out romantic love as the focus of this
holiday's ultimate meaning.
Love is multifaceted. It is more than emotion. Love is a force that can
motivate, create, heal, and transform the lives of anyone it touches. Under the
pressure of commercialism, most of us have forgotten that this holiday was
created to recognize a saint.
The Legend of Valentines Day
Over time, Valentines Day has become blended with two other ancient Roman
holidays, Lupercalis and Juno, both associated with romance; however, Saint
Valentines life exemplifies a broader definition of love. The Roman Catholic
Church recognizes 8 different saints named Valentine but the most famous one
lived in Rome during the reign of Claudius II, around the year 270 AD.
Legend has it that Claudius II outlawed marriage as a way to encourage men to
join his army. Valentine refused to obey this law and was arrested for secretly
performing weddings for young couples. While in prison, Valentines kindness and
positive attitude helped convert the jailer and his wife to Christianity.
According to the legend, Valentine also befriended the jailer's blind
daughter, often writing her notes of encouragement and praying for her. Word of
Valentines kindness and compassion reached Claudius II. He offered to release
Valentine if the priest would renounce his religion and worship the Roman gods.
Valentine not only refused, but he tried to convert Claudius II to Christianity.
Claudius II rejected this attempt and condemned Valentine to death.
As the legend goes, Valentines prayers were answered, and the jailer's
daughter was healed. On the eve of his execution, Valentine wrote a note
assuring this young girl that she was not responsible for his death. He signed
the note "from your Valentine."
As you can see, Valentines story represents many aspects of love. It was his
love for God and his commitment to his values that caused Valentine to disobey
the law. Valentines respect for romantic love is also included in his
disobedience. His positive and loving attitude, even in the midst of crisis,
affected the views of others including the jailer and Claudius himself. He
demonstrated love for humanity through his kindness to the jailer's blind
daughter.
Ways to broaden your celebration of Valentines Day
The following are ways to broaden your celebration of Saint Valentines Day:
being your own valentine; sharing meaningful and heartfelt appreciation to all
the important people in your life, not just your lover; practicing random acts
of kindness to strangers; and recommitting to your own spiritual values.
However, the most important way to put the power back into this day of love
is to learn to use the force of love to transform your life. Love can be
consciously directed to bring peace and harmony into your world.
In your mind's eye, envision your world filled with love and light. See
people responding to you with kindness and respect as you do the same with them.
Join this image with the feelings of joy as you release the force of love into
your life.
This process may seem simplistic to you, but I can assure you that love
works. I have taught this technique to people for over twenty years. The reports
have been fantastic. People have healed relationships that have been damaged for
years. Parents have seen dramatic improvements in the behavior of their
children. Workers have witnessed profound changes in conflicts on the job. The
only way you will know if it works is to try it. Do the exercise for two weeks
and see if your life is not improved.
You might want to pick a particular person or situation with which to
experiment. You will not be disappointed!
Make a commitment to forget the fluff and get down to the real stuff.
Celebrate the power of love on Saint Valentines Day. You will be glad you did.
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